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Saturday, June 21, 2008
Regarding the previous post!/ 2:44 PM Well, hello again everyone! okay so this is actually a post following up to the previous post.. And the reason i'm doing this is coz i know some of you may not agree to what i've said in the previous post. So i'm here not to explain myself (coz i believe that i have every right to think what i want) but i'm here to bring up some concerns you have regarding my previous post. Well...if you were to go to "leave a message", i've written some comments there..but i think it'll be easier for all to just read this post than scrolling up and down trying to read the comments people have posted and also comments that i have posted. Firstly, concerned guy, i do agree with you to a certain extent that it may be against theirs and most religions bout this trans sexuality issue. However, people do have their own thinking and well truthfully, it IS their life and they have every right to make their own decisions. We can try to help them and bring them to the correct path (as written or believed or taught to us) through our own religion. But what if they do not want to follow their religion? You cannot blame them, they may be born into a religion but it is not a choice they made. So if they do not believe in the religion taught to them or maybe in their thinking forced upon them, it's not their fault. As i've said so many times, people have their own thinking just as every one is different in their own way. What about the people out there who are free thinkers, are they criticised as well for not having a religion? Well, if they do not believe in their own religion, why would they want to be in it? And i ask again, isnt it a greater sin for one to not believe in their own religion, in their own god? So would you rather they be honest to both themselves and the society that they do not believe in and wish to not abide by the rules of their religion (thus wish to be a free thinker) or would you rather they be hypocrites and stay in that religion of theirs but do not follow the teachings and the beliefs. Secondly, to what i've learnt and maybe a lil researching that i've done, there are certain cases where a boy being born with more female hormones than male hormones or vice versa. So in these cases, it is not really by their choice for them to be acting as their opposite sex act. Thus the reason for them wanting a sex change. Imagine a boy/guy who is more effeminate and has been for most part of his life. People, his peers making fun of him for what/who he is. People not accepting him coz he is just different and remember, NOT by his choice, but because of some inborn deficiency. Unfair and unjust dont you think? Thirdly, if the person believes that they are more suited to be the opposite sex but well naturally, it is not accepted by the society. Dont you think all the supress emotions in that person will in fact harm him, his family, his friends (if he has any) and people around him? What if he just snaps coz of all the burden he has been carrying? What if he becomes mad and irrational and actually could or probably is capable of harming someone. Would that be good for society? Well, there are alot more reasons that i can think of but i do not think it possible for me to tell you all of it. But the reasons above are what i think fairly more important than the others that i could think of. At the end of this post, i may have been able to open up some eyes to how i see and address the issue but than again i may have not been able to do just that. Well if i have not been able to open up some eyes, then i cant help but feel sad and dissapointed but then again i respect your thinking because everyone have their own minds. I'll leave it at that. "People have their own thinking, just as every one is different in their own way. Just take it that every one is human and they have feelings and emotions just like the next person and these people are no different. "< Labels: public issues, transexuality |
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Tuesday, June 17, 2008
A girl like me - Gwen Araujo/ 11:47 PM Omg...i'm wathing this really really good movie called A girl like me - Gwen Araujo Its a great movie about this boy,Edward, who have the desires to become a girl. Even at a young age he wanted to be a girl. And as he grows older, his desires to become a FEMALE grows as well. By this time, his mother finally see and realise that this is who he is, this is what he wants to be. But then again, part of herself still hopes, still prays that Edward would barge in one day adn admit that all this was a mistake. Slowly, they finally accept him and that is when he evolves into a real she (no he did not get a sex change..just dresses like one and look like one) also invloving the change of the name to Gwen Araujo. She then falls in love with a marine guy, who in turns love her back but what he didnt know was that Gwen was a he. And they dated for 9 months but when he finally finds out that Gwen was really a guy, he was shocked beyond belief and ended any means of communication. (now see, that is the typical human behaviour....oooh, forget the 9 months they spent together...ooh he's a guy, he has not virgina...i cant see him anymore...WTH!! what about liking a person for who they are?) so after the breakup, Gwen strayed from the right path and started partying and drinking (of course, everyone hates her, and findin someone who actually loves her and then losing him, it gotta hurt) she mixes with bad company (a grp of college guys) she had Oral sex with them (she gives them BJs) okay so they a few days pass by, and the guys suspect that Gwen was a guy. OH and how right they were! but they couldnt just let it go, not when their fucking EGOS are hurt (men and thei ego....oh how i hate them...) they decided to beat her up for 5 hrs straight and then strangle her and bury her in a nearby feild. Well, of course police did their job and found the body and brought the boys too court. (omg this is where i got really pissed) The lawyer representing the boy attempted to defend the boys by saying sth like "Mrs Araujo, do you really blame these here boys for temporarily losing their heads and act rashly after being deceived in such a way. A freak becoming sexually intimate with his same sex. Society has made it such that Edward is an outcast." And she replied "HOW DARE YOU! HOW DARE YOU say that society has made them the way they are. You expect me..ME to forgive them and not blame them after what they did to my DAUGHTER?! They beat her up for 5 hrs and then strangled her and buried her in a FEILD! AND AFTER THAT THEY GO TO A DINER AND EAT PANCAKES FOR BREAKFAST!! I BLAME THEM...I BLAME EVERY ONE OF THEM..." she then walks out of the court room with her head held up high...and every single one who was present clapped their hands in support...(I SUPPORT YOU TOOO!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!) (oh! another scene that made me pissed off!) it was the end, when Gwen Edward Araujo was given a wake. People, protestors gathered infront of the house and started protesting against the family, against Gwen, against transexuality. (WHAT THE FUCK!!?!?!? CANT THEY JUST FUCKING MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS?!?! they know nothing bout her but yet they gather out there and start to protest. HAH!! what a typical human reaction...STUPID AND SHALLOW!!!) Thats really the end of the story, when Gwen was finally put to rest... OH and this IS a true story...but well then again, i'm not surprise coz human beings are every bit the animal they believe they are ever so superior to...stupid bastards... This movie is a great example thats addresses the issue that seems to be a tabboo among society...something that seems to be too lowly or "disgusting" for people of class and morals to discuss. And when asked why they refuse to acknoweledge it, they say is a sensitive issue, one that needs to be address with much care and consideration. STOP THE BULLSHIT!! just come out of the closet and admit that you, yes even adults, are uncomfortable discussing such issues. People are all different, you don't expect for everyone to be the same. Thats the reason we are human beings and not mere clones. So who made the rules that we have to be straight? we have to be our gender. Who the hell made such rules?! that those who do not follow the crowd are freaks? are different? WHAT THE FUCK?! They are human beings too, born with feelings, passion and purpose...they feel what we feel, their blood is as red as ours, We ARE the SAME. We are not at all different. So why do people squirm and figgit when they discuss this issue. But what can i, a mere teenager do to change or open the minds of others? To make them see that everyone is different in their own way...so does that makes us all freaks? should we too be shun by society? All i can say is that i'm ashamed to be part of a society that shun away people who are just trying to be themselves. I'm ashamed that i'm categorised as the same species/group as these people. When THESE "PEOPLE" shun away others who behave, acts, talks differently and just coz they do not "fit" into society. Labels: movie, public issues, society, transexuality |
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Wednesday, April 9, 2008
I SWEAR I'LL KILL THAT KID!!!/ 6:47 PM I WANNA KILL THAT KID!!!! UGH!! Omg!! i'm soo pissin mad right now! Let me just tell you what happen and i promise you, you'll get pissed off too and want to kill that kid and his parent. (If you don't then i'll freaking kick your ass to freaking china!) So well the day was going on well until i got off the bus at my bus stop. I was minding my own business when i saw this kid playing with the construction net (you know the one that's really bright orange and always accompanied with the cones) Anyhow, he was holding the net around a cat and i thought he was trying to help the cat out of the net but nooo...he was actually trapping the cat within the net and then he freaking stepped on the cat!! i just did what came first to my mind and shouted "OI!" then rushed there and pushed the kid away and scolded him. I was like "OI! fucker crazy izzit?! go away! Your mother never teach you properly izzit?! Motherfucker! Kan ni nah" (i'm sorry but i swear when i'm really pissed!!) then i helped untangle the cat and carried it in my arms. The poor cat was shaking okay!! it was soo freaking terrified! Then i told the kid to get lost and before he did, the looked at the cat and said "BYE!!" in a really cheerful tone. I was like WHAT THE FUCK?!!? Then i went to pick up the stuff i dropped when rushing to the cats aid. The kid then walked pass me with his parent and his parent just smiled at me.WTF?!?(you know the i'm-sorry-my-kid's-like-this smile) BUT WTF?!?! i was majorly pissed by then as burst out!! i said to her " OI!STUPID!, dunnoe how to raise kids,dont lar...go die lar!! MOtherfuckers. Sicko family.' and i just walked off with the cat in my arms. GOD!! i wanted to kick their asses!! i mean come on!! his parent was like freaking there and didnt do anything!! WTF?!?! STUPID MOTERAFFER!! please lar, dont be a freaking mum if you dont know how to raise them and dont have sex and bare a devil child. I swear if i see that kid again i kick his ass!! and get a baseball bat and bash his brains out!! GAWD!!! And the worst thing, this happened at the freaking bus stop. Around 6:30 pm when everyone is walking about. BUT NO ONE did anything to help the poor helpless cat. Bloody assholes. What are you? watching free show!?!? do something!! the freaking kid was stepping on the cat!!!!!!! I swear that singaporeans are cowards. I'm not bad mouthing my fellow citizens but they seriously need to be more open and give help when help is needed not stand aroud there thinking "should i help? should i? would i make a fool out of myself? everyone will look at me" OMG!! after going through the freakig questions that are bombarding you mind, the cat will be FREAKING DEAD by then!! I mean, seriously, it doesnt matter if you look the fool, what matters is you helped a poor helpless creature!! and something good came out of it! dont freaking care whether people will look at you!! what the hell lar...i'm not gonna tell you what to do cause you'll forever stay a COWARD if you dont want to do it yourself. Whatever, i cant stand living among them....I cant stand living in a country with them...i cant stand cowards!! Period. BLOODY ASSHOLES!!! Labels: Motherfuckers, pissed off, public issues, stupid people |
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Tuesday, October 23, 2007
catching up with me/ 4:22 PM
Labels: have fun, pissed off, public issues |
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Wednesday, October 17, 2007
taxi drivers from hell/ 6:26 PM
Labels: public issues, splurge, taxi drivers |
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Monday, October 8, 2007
Marriage proposal NO NO/ 4:18 PM Honey arh, you want to buy a flat?? Omg!! i swear, if a guy ever propose to me by saying that, I WILL KILL HIM!!(or at least smack him really hard!!) I mean we all know that if you ask you partner whether she wants to buy a flat, you're actually asking her to marry you. But WHY?!??! WHY?!?!? why do you have to say that?? Its not that hard, if you can say Honey arh, you want to buy a flat?You definitely will be able to say Will you marry me? For starters, it's definitely shorter!!! And trust me, you wouldn't want to tell you're kids that you proposed to your wife in that manner!! It's sooo embarrasing, both for you and your kids. Third, where's the romance, if not romance than it should at least be memorable!! Not when you're driving and suddenly "hey you wanna buy a flat?" Proposing to you future spouse-to-be should be memorable because its once in a lifetime(unless you marry and then divorce and marry and divorce...then, in that case, you shouldn't marry at all. You should just have one night stand...well thats how you treat marriage then why not??). You do not have to go over the top with it, but just so that it'll be a pleasant experience. If you're not confident she'llsay yes, then why not shock them?? buy them hundreds of roses(okay maybe not hundreds) candle lit dinner, and why not throw in a bottle of champange since you already went to the trouble, your partner would be speechless!! that is when you take control of the battle feild!! get down on one knee and ask her to marry you!! she will be in a state of shock that she can't say anything...well then you just treat it like a yes, i mean silent means consent!! ahahha I've heard of guys going to such lenghts to propose to their wife-to-be and its soo soo romantic and incredible and memorable! i'm too lazy to tell you people the story...be original and do something out of the ordinary... Anyways, if you DO NOT know how to deliver the BASIC marriage proposal well i'll just have to take you step by step then won't I. Step 1: Prepare the ring!! (a must!! please! wedding ring not onion ring or any other ring!) Step 2: Get down on one knee(unless you have no knee/s, then please skip this step!!) Step 3: Gently hold of her hand and look into her eyes Step 4: Ask her to marry you. Done, 4 easy steps!! woohoo!!! Well i guess i'll leave you to practice on your own!! Labels: public issues, thoughts |
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Sunday, October 7, 2007
Do or Don't : Going out alone/ 2:02 PM I'm curious, are people really afraid to do something on their own? The reason I'm curious about this is due to the conversation my friends and I had. Well the conversation started when they asked me what my plans were for the weekend. I told them that I was planning to go the national library and maybe do a little shopping at Bugis Junction. Being the Kaypoh friends that they are, they then asked me who I was going with. And again, i told them that i was going alone. Well I think you guys are smart enough what their reaction was. OMG! Why are you going there alone? Don't you feel akward or weird?? Paiseh?(well maybe this is an exaggeration but its along the same line.) As much as I enjoy having company when i go out, I'm also perfectly fine with just going out alone. Sometimes I'm really glad to go out alone, times when i just need to be alone and have my own breathing space. Its not that I do not realate well to people, in fact I think I'm rather comfortably among people but I don't need them to be around me 24/7. Often, I go out alone to get a bite, to go shopping, and even to watch movies. I think its totally okay for someone to go to the movies alone. I enjoy myself and that's all that matters. But I do really dislike it when i buy myself a ticket and the person ask "only one?", i'll answer yes and they give me this I-can't-believe-you're-here-alone look. I think i can entertain myself so there's really no need for company sometimes. But i still don't get it why people are soo kinda against going out alone....are you guys just unindependant?insecure? just don't like going out alone? what?? If you guys have any reason as to why people shun at the reason of someone going out alone, maybe you can leave a comment or something cause i really don't find anything wrong with going out alone. Labels: independant, public issues, thoughts |
